Katie Never Thought Her Partner Was Violent Until He Killed Her

Katie Never Thought Her Partner Was Violent Until He Killed Her

From True Crime Conversations by Mamamia Podcasts

May 6, 2026 · 59 min

About this episode

The episode discusses the tragic story of Katie Haley and her sister Bianca Unwin's advocacy for domestic violence awareness.

29-year-old Katie Haley arrived home on a Friday night in March 2018 after a long shift at a Melbourne tavern. Her partner Shane had been messaging throughout the day, calls, accusations, jealousy, and control that had continued for hours... After reaching her limit, Katie stands up and starts packing a bag. She tells him the relationship is over. She’s leaving with their daughter. But she never makes it out the door. Today, we’re speaking with Katie’s sister, Bianca Unwin, who has since become an advocate for domestic violence awareness following her sister’s death, and who now speaks openly about coercive control and the warning signs that were not fully recognised at the time. LINKS If you’re experiencing family and domestic violence, Safe Steps provides immediate and confidential assistance. Find out more here .  If any of the contents in this episode have caused distress, know that there is help available via Lifeline on 13 11 14 or Beyond Blue on  1300 22 4636 . GET IN TOUCH Follow us on Instagram and TikTok  @truecrimeconversations Want us to cover a case on the podcast? Email us at  truecrime@mamamia.com.au  or send…

People in this episode

Host: Gemma Bath

Guest: Bianca Unwin

Topics covered

  • domestic violence
  • coercive control
  • warning signs
  • advocacy
  • personal story

Keywords

  • domestic violence
  • coercive control
  • Katie Haley
  • Bianca Unwin
  • Melbourne
  • advocacy
  • warning signs

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Safe Steps, Lifeline, Beyond Blue, Mamamia

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