Replay* | Choreplay with Jordan Carlos

About this episode

AJ Holiday and Tam Bam discuss relationships and household responsibilities with guest Jordan Carlos, focusing on themes from his book Chore Play.

*Originally aired March 26th, 2026 In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tam Bam turn weekend chaos into a meaningful conversation about relationships, household responsibilities, and emotional connection . Joined by comedian and author Jordan Carlos , they unpack themes from his book Chore Play , exploring how everyday tasks like cleaning, cooking, and shared responsibilities can strengthen intimacy and partnership. The discussion highlights how upbringing shapes expectations around domestic roles and why modern relationships require more balance, effort, and intentional communication. The conversation also dives into division of labor, emotional intelligence, and relationship dynamics , offering practical advice on recognizing signs of strain and improving connection. AJ, Tam Bam, and Jordan emphasize the power of small gestures, mutual respect, and understanding each partner’s background to build healthier, more supportive relationships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

People in this episode

Hosts: AJ Holiday, Tam Bam

Guest: Jordan Carlos

Topics covered

• relationships
• household responsibilities
• emotional connection
• intimacy
• communication
• division of labor
• emotional intelligence

Keywords

• relationships
• Chore Play
• intimacy
• emotional connection
• household tasks
• communication
• division of labor
• Jordan Carlos

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Chore Play

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