You Only Know The Old Me
From We Talk Back by The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
May 21, 2026 · 1h 19m · Season 6 · Episode 272
About this episode
AJ Holiday and TamBam discuss healing, relationships, and personal growth through humor and personal stories.
In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into candid conversations about healing, relationships, identity, and the realities of personal growth in today’s world. Through humor and personal stories, the duo reflects on everything from weekend experiences and evolving friendships to the challenges of navigating societal expectations, parenting, and relationship dynamics. The discussion also touches on sensitive topics like fetishization, self-perception, and how change can impact the way people connect and communicate with one another. The conversation expands into love languages, toxic friendships, and the importance of setting boundaries while prioritizing self-respect and emotional well-being. AJ and Tam explore coping mechanisms, authenticity, and the growing influence of AI and digital culture on human interaction, while emphasizing the need to remain grounded in self-awareness and personal discipline. Blending honesty, humor, and real-life insight, this episode offers a relatable perspective on evolving relationships, protecting your peace, and becoming a healthier version of yourself. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast…
People in this episode
Hosts: AJ Holiday, TamBam
Topics covered
- healing
- relationships
- identity
- personal growth
- self-perception
- boundaries
- digital culture
Keywords
- healing
- relationships
- identity
- personal growth
- self-perception
- boundaries
- toxic friendships
- love languages
- digital culture
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: We Talk Back, The Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartPodcasts
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