About this episode

The episode explores personal dilemmas and the importance of self-reflection in relationships.

Am I the problem? It’s a question we’ve all asked ourselves–and if you haven’t, you probably should. This week, some introspective Valley girls share their struggles with deciding if they’re in the wrong. One is suspicious of her husband using Snapchat to chat with his work wife. Another wonders if she can ask her sister to cover up her Star Wars tattoo at her wedding. If there’s one thing you’ll learn from this episode, it’s that it never hurts to look in the mirror and ask the hard question... !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 THE PROBLEM: 11:36 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast   SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said   !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID , @JACIMARIESMITH , @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS , @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID , CHELSEY JADE , JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Labcorp: Visit OnDemand.Labcorp.com/whatwesaid and use code “whatwesaid” to save up to 15% on select tests. Dunkin’: Head to Dunkin’ today and find your favorite Refresher! Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch…

People in this episode

Hosts: Jaci Marie Smith, Chelsey Jade Curtis

Topics covered

• self-reflection
• relationships
• personal struggles
• wedding planning
• communication

Keywords

• self-reflection
• relationships
• wedding
• tattoo
• Snapchat

Sponsors

Labcorp, Dunkin', Squarespace, Thrive Market, Betterhelp, Quince

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