Subconscious Dating Habits, Shadow Work, & The "Nice Guy" Trap with Veneta Nikolova

Subconscious Dating Habits, Shadow Work, & The "Nice Guy" Trap with Veneta Nikolova

February 20, 2026 · 54 min

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Rafael Gomez and Veneta Nikolova discuss the psychological factors influencing dating choices and the impact of childhood trauma on relationships.

Are you recreating your childhood trauma in your dating life? Today on Women on Men, host Rafael Gomez sits down with Veneta Nikolova, a Somatic Shadow Work Coach specializing in conscious relationships and nervous system mastery. Together, they explore the hidden psychological drivers behind who we pick and why. Veneta explains why "secure" love often feels uncomfortable to those used to chaos, and offers a blueprint for men to step into their power without falling into toxic "Alpha" stereot...

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