What No One Tells You About Sending Your Kid to College (From Both Sides)

What No One Tells You About Sending Your Kid to College (From Both Sides)

April 29, 2026 · 47 min

About this episode

Dr. Cristie Ritz-King and her daughter Faith discuss the challenges and growth experienced during the transition to college life from both a parent's and a student's perspective.

Nearly a year after sending my daughter Faith off to college, we're finally sitting down to talk about what that transition really looked like — the messy, uncomfortable, growth-filled truth of it. In this episode, Faith and I dig into what we're calling the "weeds of the week": growing pains. From both sides — me as a mom and a parenting professional, and Faith as the one who actually lived through it. We cover: - Why I drove six hours alone on Labor Day weekend — and why I'd do it again - The isolation Faith felt as an out-of-state acting major navigating COVID anxiety on a relaxed-policy campus - How that one visit helped her claim the campus as *her* place, not just a place she was surviving - The sophomore housing decision I disagreed with (and never said "I told you so" about — until she figured it out herself) - Why setting honest, low expectations for freshman year might be the best thing I did - The car breakdown that proved Faith could handle real life without us - Why parents who tailgate are actually doing their kids a favor (you're welcome) - My one parenting tip: **ask questions instead of giving answers** — it's how you help them see without telling them what to…

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Host: Dr. Cristie Ritz-King

Guest: Faith

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Organizations: COVID

Books & works: Husbands and Lovers

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