De‑Loving: How I Kill a Love That Won’t Let Go

From World Reading Club [W[R]C] by Flor Elizabeth Carrasco

May 18, 2026 · 1h 0m

About this episode

Dr. Hakeem Ali-Bocas Alexander discusses his hypnotic protocol for overcoming a consuming romantic obsession.

Listen to the episode that started it all, then get the complete blueprint in De‑Loving: The Hypnotic Protocol for Killing a Love That Refuses to Die on Amazon. You wake up and they’re already there. They stay through every task, every conversation, every dream. You feel alive in ways you forgot were possible—and you know you have to destroy it. In this raw, uncut episode, Dr. Hakeem Ali‑Bocas Alexander lays out the exact hypnotic protocol he built to annihilate an all‑consuming romantic obsession. He calls it De‑Loving. – Why a professional clinical hypnotist would design a self‑protocol that feels like emotional murder – The three brutal stages: estrangement, execution, and funeral rites inside the theater of the mind – How to erase the face, the voice, the laughter, the name—until the person becomes a stranger – Why nature hates a vacuum and what you must install in the crater that’s left behind – The single pre‑contact moment you have to destroy or the whole thing grows back Witness a bold confession and a technical warning. It’s a look at the machinery of systematic desensitization pushed to its most extreme—emotional amnesia, manufactured disgust, and a burial that takes…

People in this episode

Host: Flor Elizabeth Carrasco

Guest: Dr. Hakeem Ali-Bocas Alexander

Topics covered

romantic obsession
hypnosis
emotional healing
self-help
mental health

Keywords

De-Loving
hypnotic protocol
romantic obsession
emotional amnesia
self-help

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: De‑Loving: The Hypnotic Protocol for Killing a Love That Refuses to Die