"Stop Calling Yourself a Stud If You Date Men" ft. Amber's Closet

About this episode

Amber's Closet joins Wrong Sauce to discuss the meaning of the term 'stud' and its implications in the lesbian community.

Amber's Closet (YouTube OG, activist, bonafide celesbian) pulls up to Wrong Sauce with guest co-host Jkiillem and we got into ALL of it — ketamine therapy, sneaky femme assassins, the LA lesbian dating curse, and the conversation everybody's been having: what does the word "stud" actually mean, and who does it belong to?Amber breaks down why the stud label matters, why bisexual mascs need their own term, and why watering it down is doing real harm to an already marginalized community.Also: we're starting a fight club!

People in this episode

Host: Wrong Sauce

Guests: Amber's Closet, Jkiillem

Topics covered

• lesbian dating
• identity
• community
• activism
• gender labels

Keywords

• stud
• lesbian
• dating
• identity
• activism
• ketamine therapy
• community

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