You’re Making This Sibling Mistake Every Day (And It’s Making the Fighting Worse)

You’re Making This Sibling Mistake Every Day (And It’s Making the Fighting Worse)

June 24, 2026 · 48 min

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This episode discusses common sibling fighting issues and provides strategies for parents to foster healthy sibling relationships.

If your house sounds like a WWE match in a bounce house all summer long... this episode is for you. The arguing. The tattling. The screaming from the other room. The constant feeling that you've spent the last three hours breaking up fights and saying, "GUYS. PLEASE. JUST STOP." Most parents think sibling fighting means something is wrong. What if it's actually one of the most important relationships your child will ever have? In this episode, Kristin and Deena are giving you the exact roadmap for what to do when your kids won't stop fighting (hello summer) and the surprisingly common parenting mistake that can make sibling conflict even worse. You'll learn: When to step in... and when to stay out of it Why playing detective ("Who started it?!") backfires What to say in the moment when things are escalating The simple shift that helps kids actually solve problems together The science-backed way to reduce sibling rivalry before it starts How to teach the social skills your kids need for life, not just for summer By the end of this episode, you'll understand what's really happening beneath the sibling chaos, exactly how to respond, and how to raise kids who can disagree, repair…

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