Ask A Man 29 May '26: 'What is my husband doing with the sangoma?'

About this episode

Anonymous discusses her husband's spiritual journey with a sangoma and the impact on their marriage.

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 10 years now and they have two children together.  Her husband got sick and the doctors at the hospital were not able to diagnose what the problem was, so he then opted for spiritual intervention and started visiting a sangoma, despite their staunch Christian background.  This made anonymous uneasy but she supported her husband in his quest to find healing.  She says he’s now behaving differently and spends a lot of time with this sangoma. She doesn’t understand why all of this is happening but suspects the sangoma told her husband that she is cheating. 

People in this episode

Guest: Anonymous

Topics covered

• marriage
• spirituality
• health
• trust
• cultural beliefs

Keywords

• husband
• sangoma
• spiritual intervention
• Christianity
• marriage issues

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Christian

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