About this episode

Margarita Nazarenko discusses the importance of self-leadership for women and challenges societal norms that discourage assertiveness.

Watch Detach: My 3 day intensive masterclass. They called you bossy. They called you demanding. They called you difficult. Good. In this episode Margarita makes the full case for being self led, why women are trained from childhood to outsource their own lives to other people's comfort, and why the burnout, brain fog and confusion so many women are feeling right now is coming from one place. You have stopped leading yourself. In this episode: 1. Self led women know what they want and are not afraid to say it 2. We are taught as little girls that being easy is rewarded 3. Being self led is not controlling others it is running your own life 4. Indecisiveness is one of the most expensive things you can do to yourself 5. Confidence looks bossy when people are not used to it 6. Women apologize before they even finish the thought 7. The fear is not of being bossy it is the fear of rejection 8. Every successful woman has been called bossy at some point 9. Someone is always steering your life if it is not you 10. What would you do if nobody was watching and nobody cared If you say I do not mind so often you have forgotten what you do mind, if you apologize before you even finish the…

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