How To Survive The Overthinking Spiral (Even though you know better!)

How To Survive The Overthinking Spiral (Even though you know better!)

June 30, 2026 · 21 min · Episode 137

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This episode discusses the challenges of overthinking in relationships and how to feel safe despite anxiety and attachment issues.

You know they're a good partner. So why does your brain still act like you're about to get abandoned? 😵‍💫 You know your attachment style.You've read the books.You can literally watch yourself spiraling... ...and somehow you still can't stop. In this week's episode I'm breaking down why knowing better isn't the same as feeling safe... and what to do when your nervous system goes into full-on survival mode over a delayed text, a quiet mood, or a tiny change in communication. In this episode: 💭 Why high-achieving women feel so confident at work... but powerless in relationships🧠 The hidden reason your brain treats a delayed text like an emergency❤️ Why reassurance only gives temporary relief (and actually keeps the cycle alive)🌱 The difference between surviving your relationship and actually feeling secure in it🚩 How "I just need a little more clarity" might be keeping you stuck✨ My own story about breaking an old family pattern in real time👯‍♀️ A client win that proves you can stop spiraling even if you've struggled with jealousy, abandonment, or anxious attachment for years If you've ever thought... "I KNOW I'm overthinking... so why can't I stop?" This episode is for you…

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