About this episode

The episode explores guided erotic experiences and their impact on long-term attraction and connection in relationships.

Co-Host Nicholas Velotta (https://www.mountaintoppodcast.com/arya) My first-time guest Nicholas Velotta is an intimacy researcher for a company called Arya. Arya curates sexual experiences for couples everywhere. Nicholas's IRB-approved study of over 600,000 people found about how guided erotic experiences actually affect long-term attraction and connection. What did the data from couples reveal about the specific communication gap men fall into around desire? Next, discover why attraction doesn't fade on its own, and what the data shows actually triggers or kills it in long-term relationships. What can men specifically do differently to become the partner who keeps attraction alive? Also, find out why structure and novelty (not spontaneity) sustain erotic connection, and what couples can do about it right away. Could it be true that many men have sexual desires or fantasies that they wouldn't tell their "macho" friends about? (You decide...) You'll also get a breakdown of Arya's "Scenes" (Heat, Taste, Bound, and more), including what they are, how they work, and why couples who use them report deeper intimacy and sustained attraction. Get the free report Flip The Switch: 5…

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