#334: Future Fakers, Secret Emotional Abusers, & Cheaters Do Not Deserve You

#334: Future Fakers, Secret Emotional Abusers, & Cheaters Do Not Deserve You

April 29, 2026 · 31 min

About this episode

Shena discusses relationship red flags and the importance of emotional safety in the context of recent events involving Megan Thee Stallion.

In this episode, Shena uses Megan Thee Stallion’s recent breakup to unpack critical relationship red flags, including cheating, emotional instability, and “future faking.” She reinforces that a partner’s betrayal is never your fault, and that patterns like mood swings, lack of accountability, and a history of dishonesty are warning signs that shouldn’t be overlooked. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that you are not responsible for fixing or saving anyone, real love is grounded in emotional safety, consistency, and integrity. Resources mentioned in the episode: BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/method The 4 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction: https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap Connect with us: Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlsheal Facebook: Black Girls Heal Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don’t forget to come back next week for the new episode. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out…

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