About this episode

This episode explores the barriers to sexual intimacy for couples after having kids and discusses how to rebuild emotional safety and connection.

Why does sexual intimacy change for couples after kids? Even when we long to be close? In this episode, I explore the barriers to postpartum intimacy, sexual and emotional connection after kids, and what helps build back a healthy sexual relationships in early parenthood. A list of tips doesn't cut it when there are often deeper blocks or relationship dynamic blocks that need to be addressed first in order to create emotional safety that paves the way for physical pleasure. I cover: How division of labor and emotional labor impact desire and relational connection Why nervous system regulation and co-regulation matter in postpartum relationships The impact of postpartum anxiety, mom burnout, survival mode, and relationship stress on sexual intimacy Why expanding the definition of physical intimacy can reduce pressure and strengthen connection You both deserve to experience desire and pleasure in ways that feel emotionally safe and satisfying. This is Part 2 of a 3-part series on sexuality after kids. Sometimes these discussions require extra support from a professional. Connect with me to learn about how I can support you and your couple relationship: Website Offers…

People in this episode

Host: Evie Mpras

Topics covered

• sexual intimacy
• postpartum relationships
• emotional safety
• healthy communication
• parenthood
• desire and pleasure

Keywords

• postpartum intimacy
• emotional connection
• sexual relationships
• division of labor
• nervous system regulation
• postpartum anxiety
• mom burnout

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