Supporting Your Teens and Young Adults Through Betrayal - with Ellia Marcum

About this episode

The episode discusses the impact of betrayal trauma on teens and how parents can support them through it.

When betrayal hits a relationship, children often feel the ripple effects—sometimes in ways parents don’t immediately recognize. This week we welcome Ellia Marcum (CPC, BSP, CYPFC, CMHC) to help us understand the impact betrayal can have on the whole family system. In this episode, we talk about: The hidden impact of betrayal trauma on kids Warning signs your teen may need extra support Why teens often hide their pain How community and mentorship help children heal Building emotional safety and resilience in teens Connect with Ellia: Mood Well Coaching Turning to Peace magazine - Use the discount code HEALING10 to get 10% off Free resource: How to Talk to Your Children About Family Infidelity Chapters 03:48 Teens and Mental Health Shift 05:16 Hidden Hurt and Stress Signs 09:16 Real Family Examples 12:47 What to Watch For 16:51 Sibling and Peer Support 25:25 Mentors and Asking for Help 31:06 Safety in the Body 35:58 Boundaries and What’s Mine Register Now! ***Use promo code PODCAST150 to get $150 off when you register for any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!*** NEW Help Her Heal Support Group for Men starting in April! - Register now to experience the deep healing that can…

People in this episode

Hosts: Alana Gordon, Amie Woolsey

Guest: Ellia Marcum

Topics covered

• betrayal trauma
• teen support
• family impact
• emotional safety
• mentorship
• resilience

Keywords

• betrayal trauma
• teens
• mental health
• family support
• emotional resilience
• mentorship
• warning signs

Sponsors

Turning to Peace magazine

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Mood Well Coaching, Turning to Peace magazine

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