Warm the Buick Up: Let’s Talk Orgasms ft. Bryanna Gená

About this episode

Kiki and Medinah discuss orgasms and sexual communication with guest Bryanna Gená.

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are joined by board-certified sex and relationship coach Bryanna Gená for an honest (and hilarious) conversation about orgasms, fake moans, emotional foreplay, and why so many women struggle to speak up in the bedroom. The ladies break down the myths women were taught about sex, why penetration alone doesn’t work for everyone, and how emotional safety, chemistry, anticipation, and communication all play a role in pleasure. They also get into bad sex, “warming the Buick up,” men with too much confidence, masturbation, sex shame in the Black community, and why some people are literally counting sheep during sex. Plus: living apart while married, period diaper discourse, being attracted to men with “curated sex playlists,” and asking a date if he might be on the spectrum. Pour up and join the conversation because baby… somebody’s lying during sex. FEELD Download Feeld in the App Store or Google Play SOAKING WET Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Contact us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales…

People in this episode

Hosts: Kiki Said So, Medinah Monroe

Guest: Bryanna Gená

Topics covered

• orgasms
• sexual communication
• emotional safety
• bad sex
• sex shame
• relationships

Keywords

• orgasms
• fake moans
• emotional foreplay
• bad sex
• sex shame
• Black community
• communication
• pleasure

Sponsors

Feeld, Soaking Wet

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Patreon, imcurioustoknow.com, klassybaste.com

Places: Bali

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