CockTales: Dirty Discussions

The Family MeetingY'all... grab a drink because we need to talk.This week, it's just me and I have a LOT to catch you up on. We're talking missed episodes, tech disasters, Cabo, destination weddings, travel drama, and the story of how somebody almost drowned while wearing a life jacket.I'm also letting y'all all the way into my business and sharing a major life update: after years of doing things my way, I'm preparing for a huge new chapter that honestly scares me a little.Plus:• Cabo recap• Wedding weekend shenanigans• Travel anxiety and vacation arguments• The airport stranger story that had the internet talking• A truly unhinged Weird Sex involving an eel• House hunting updates• Moving in together while still claiming I'm single• Advice letters• What's next for mePour yourself a Soft Launch cocktail and come sit down. It's time for a family meeting.VB Health- Try DriveBoostGet 10% off Drive Boost from VB Health with code COCKTALES visit vb.health todayBrooklyn BeddingGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.Contact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re asking the real question: Who has shut-up money?!We kick things off with travel nostalgia and vacation dreams before running straight into the hilarious reality of adulthood. We dive into the chaos of planning family vacations, organizing group trips, setting budgets, and why everyone wants a luxury trip until it’s time to pay the deposit.In this episode, we talk about:• The stress of planning trips with friends and family• Budget conversations nobody wants to have• The difference between work travel vs real vacations• Why group chats can’t plan trips to save their lives• Dream destinations vs real-life responsibilitiesThen it’s time for Weird Sex, and this story is truly unforgettable. A shocking medical discovery sparks a conversation about embarrassment, health, and the wild things people do in relationships.We wrap things up with Valentine’s Day vibes, listener advice, and plenty of laughs along the way.Cocktail of the Week 🍸The Emotional IntelligenceSmoky, sweet, spicy, and perfectly balanced — just like the conversations.Ingredients• 2 oz mezcal• 2 oz pineapple juice• ¾ oz fresh lime juice• ½ oz agave syrup (adjust to taste)• Tajín for rim (optional)• Ice• Pineapple wedge or lime wheel for garnishDirectionsLightly rim a rocks glass with Tajín (optional).Add mezcal, pineapple juice, lime juice, and agave to a shaker with ice.Shake well until chilled.Strain over fresh ice in the prepared glass.Garnish with a pineapple wedge or lime wheel.Cheers 🥂SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERSFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsDRIVE BOOST FROM VBHEALTHVisit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Chapters00:00:00 - Introduction and Cocktail Recipe00:00:49 - Reminiscing Past Experiences00:04:25 - Planning for Family Vacations00:13:51 - Weird Sex Segment00:15:17 - Bizarre Medical Story00:17:56 - Sponsor Message: BB Health00:20:26 - Valentine's Day and Relationships00:31:33 - Valentine's Day Survival Guide00:33:47 - TV Show Recommendations00:44:07 - Advice Segment: Long Distance Relationship00:46:57 - Long Distance Relationship Breakdown00:50:47 - Advice and ReflectionsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Are you getting a good Relationship ROI, or are you just operating in chaos? This week, Kiki and Medinah discuss the importance of intentionality—from your wellness routine to your brunch dates. We’re diving into why separated checks at a bottomless mimosa brunch might actually be the ultimate green flag for clarity.In This Episode: The ladies discuss the transition from "brunch friends" to "real life" support and why Medinah appreciated a guy friend being 100% upfront about financial boundaries. We also get into the "weird sex" story of the week: a romantic shower that turned into an Olympic sport when the curtain rod gave up. Plus, Kiki talks about the struggle of people always "outsourcing" their work to her—from party planning to free makeup sessions.We also cover:Intentional Health: Why your "Relationship ROI" starts with your own rest and wellness.The "Ghost" Eyebrow Incident: Why you should always have a backup makeup artist.Advice: Navigating a friendship that went cold during a season of grief and new motherhood.This Week's Cocktail: The Calm but Curious MuleA refreshing, spicy mocktail (with an optional kick).Ingredients:Ginger BeerPear Juice or NectarFresh Lemon JuiceGarnish: Cinnamon stick or Star AniseInstructions:Fill a copper mug or rocks glass with ice.Add the pear juice and fresh lemon.Top with ginger beer.Garnish with a cinnamon stick or star anise and enjoy!Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALESfor 10% off Try Brello! Go to brellohealth.com and use code COCKTALESFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsFollow Us:Instagram: @cocktalespodcastInstagram: @kikisaidsoInstagram: @coffeebeandeanContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird S*x: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

SPECIAL OFFER!Beducated is offering our listeners 50% off an annual membership when you click the link iand use code COCKTALES. https://beducate.me/pd2603-cocktalesLast week we kicked off our “Who Said That?” recap, and this week we’re back with Part 2 — more wild clips, iconic one-liners, and a few moments that reminded us why CockTales is funny and deep when it wants to be.This episode is a continuation of last week’s trip down memory lane, pulling standout moments from different years of the show. Some clips had us crying laughing, some had us side-eyeing ourselves, and others took a surprisingly thoughtful turn — because if we’re gonna reflect, we might as well do it honestly.We talk fashion eras (yes, the Martha Stewart linen phase still stands), dating boundaries, bad decisions we didn’t make, and the difference between being open-minded and being open to everything (spoiler: not the same).We also get into why “sex is a skill,” why everybody with a microphone is not a licensed expert, and why sometimes the real growth is knowing when to stop, sit still, and get yourself together. As always, there’s plenty of foolishness, a little ministry, and a lot of “did she really say that?” energy. If you haven’t listened to Part 1, go run that back first — then come join us here. 🍹Cocktail of the Episode French 75… But Make It TherapyYou’ll need:Sparkling wineVanilla vodkaSimple syrupBailey’s (or RumChata) foamLemon twistHow to make it:Shake Bailey’s with a small splash of simple syrup until frothy. Pour vanilla vodka into a flute, top with sparkling wine, gently spoon the foam on top, and garnish with a lemon twist. Do not rush the foam unless you want chaos in a glass. 🗣 Topics We Get Into:Recapping iconic CockTales quotes and moments from past yearsThe Martha Stewart / Ina Garten aesthetic debate (still unresolved)Dating boundaries, self-control, and learning when to say noWhy being open-minded doesn’t mean being open to everythingThe difference between licensed professionals and internet “experts”Taking breaks from dating without guiltWhy sex, intimacy, and communication are skills you can actually learnFree and low-cost resources people sleep on (libraries, schools, clinics, and more)Growth, reflection, and recognizing patterns in yourselfVB Health – Soaking Wet Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts.📺 Watch the full episode on YouTube.💬 Tell us which quote took you OUTBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

In this episode, Kiki and Medinah get into one of the hardest parts of adulthood: how to say uncomfortable things with love, tact, and intention. What starts as a casual conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about honesty, boundaries, emotional awareness, and why so many people avoid hard conversations altogether.From awkward truths like bad breath and body odor to deeper emotional feedback that can strain friendships and relationships, the ladies unpack why delivery matters just as much as truth. They talk about when honesty is helpful versus harmful, how personal experiences shape our ability to receive feedback, and why avoidance often feels easier than vulnerability.The episode also explores relationship expectations, emotional maturity, and a listener write-in that sparks a real conversation about compatibility, communication, and knowing when something just isn’t aligned. Along the way, Kiki reflects on personal growth, past embarrassment, family dynamics, and learning how to pause before reacting, especially when emotions are high.This is a funny, honest, and thought-provoking episode about growth, self-awareness, and learning how to communicate without tearing people down — or disappearing when things get uncomfortable.If you’ve ever struggled with telling the truth, hearing the truth, or figuring out how to say the hard thing without hurting someone, this episode is for you.Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use code COCKTALESPOD FOR 30% OFF SITEWIDE!!For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/pd2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducatedWe’re shaking up the holiday season with a cocktail that tastes like Christmas, cozy vibes, and just a little bit of sin. This week’s drink is the Naughty Nog Martini, a frothy eggnog latte moment that somehow led us straight into one of the wildest public emergency stories ever told on CockTales.🍸 Naughty Nog (Eggnog Latte Martini) RecipeIngredients:1–2 oz vanilla vodka1 oz eggnog1.5 oz cold brew or espresso0.5 oz simple syrup (optional if you like it sweeter)Dash of cinnamon or nutmegIceInstructions:Add everything to a shaker with ice. Shake hard until frothy, strain into a martini glass, and top with cinnamon or nutmeg. Sip slowly… because clearly, this drink has consequences.Once the cocktails hit, we dive into:✨ Holiday traditions and why cheesy Lifetime movies still eat every time✨ All Her Fault theories, plot twists, and why Kiki is ready to write and direct✨ Medina’s acting dreams and the monologue she’s already prepared✨ Theme night prep: Dirty Disney, North Pole After Dark, In Living Color, and Strip Club Night✨ Plane farts, airplane germs, and why those blankets are not your friends✨ A full-on stomach betrayal that led to a Ziploc bag, a frantic phone call, and an emergency Chick-fil-A pit stopWe also get into supporting partners with mental health struggles, TikTok conspiracy holes, dog-nap nightmares, Carry-On Only delusion, and why sometimes you just have to end the whole day and start over.This episode has holiday chaos, movie talk, outfit planning, questionable decisions, and a very public emergency that will absolutely have you hollering.Grab a Naughty Nog and press play — we warned you.FOLLOW US:@COCKTALESPOD@KIKISAIDSO@COFFEEBEANDEANFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsTry Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducatedIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Contact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form