About this episode

This episode explores the differences between orgies and gangbangs, discussing cultural perceptions, sexual health, and personal experiences related to group sex.

What's the actual difference between an ()rgy and a g4ng bang? And why do these two forms of group sx carry such different cultural baggage? In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the definitions, misconceptions, fantasies and realities surrounding two of the most talked-about group sx experiences. We explore where these ideas come from, how they've been shaped by mainstream 🌽orn, and why consent, agency and communication matter so much when discussing group sexual experiences. Along the way, we discuss: The difference between ()rgies and g4ng bangs Why group sex remains one of the world's most common fantasies How porn influences our understanding of group sx Listener stories, unexpected experiences and hilarious mishaps Sexual health, testing and safer group play Why these experiences aren't exclusive to any one gender or sexuality How our own relationships with sx, sobriety and intimacy have evolved over time We also take a look at some recent developments in contraception research, including updates in male contraception trials and conversations around informed contraceptive choices. Whether you're simply curious, have fantasised about group sx, or want to better…

People in this episode

Hosts: Florence Bark, Reed

Topics covered

• group sex
• swinging
• sexual health
• consent
• fantasies
• pornography
• contraception

Keywords

• orgies
• gangbangs
• group sex
• sexual health
• consent
• fantasies
• pornography
• contraception

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