Dildo Nightmares, with Matty from Eversense Toys

About this episode

The episode features a conversation with Matty Hennessy about creating inclusive sex toys and navigating intimacy in the context of transitioning.

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by Matty Hennessy - sex toy designer, transmasc educator, and the brilliant mind behind Eversense Toys and the chaotic internet phenomenon Dildo Nightmares. We dive into Matty’s journey creating toys for bodies that are often overlooked by mainstream sex tech including his upcoming designs specifically supporting transmasc pleasure, bottom growth, and accessibility needs. From the story behind his first prototype to the emotional reality of relearning pleasure in a changing body, this conversation is honest, educational, and deeply affirming. Of course, we also explore the absolute madness of the sex toy industry, including some of the most cursed designs ever created (yes… including a demon-looking toy Reed received 👀). Matty answers your listener questions too: how to introduce toys after bad experiences, navigating intimacy with a transitioning partner, and the best ways to stimulate nipples safely and effectively. This episode is sponsored by Erika Lust - pioneers of ethical, cinematic adult films. Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off their platform - erikalust.com Follow Matty: IG: @dildonightmares and…

People in this episode

Hosts: Florence Bark, Reed

Guest: Matty Hennessy

Topics covered

• sex toy design
• transmasc pleasure
• intimacy
• accessibility in sex tech
• relearning pleasure
• sex toy industry

Keywords

• sex toys
• transmasc
• intimacy
• pleasure
• accessibility
• Dildo Nightmares
• Eversense Toys

Sponsors

Erika Lust

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Eversense Toys, Dildo Nightmares

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