About this episode

This episode features Dr. Kiki Fehling discussing the journey of coming out and self-discovery at any age.

Something in you already knows. Maybe it's been whispering for years. Maybe it got louder recently. Maybe you can't quite name it yet — but you know something is asking to be looked at. If you've been sitting with questions about who you are, who you love, or what this next chapter of your life is actually supposed to look like, the 3-Day Clarity Experience was built for you. Three evenings. One guide. A real map forward. Live on Zoom, May 5–7, 2026 - 7:00–8:15 PM CST Day 1 – Is This Real? Your Story of Knowing. We'll trace the quiet moments that have been pointing toward this truth — the early clues, the body signals, the friendships that felt like something more. You'll leave with a personal Story of Knowing timeline that makes sense of what you've been carrying. Day 2 – Where Am I in This Journey? We'll walk through the five stages of later-in-life awakening, and you'll find yourself somewhere on that map. Not lost. Not behind. Exactly where you're supposed to be. Day 3 – What Now? Your Next Right Step. We'll look honestly at what's possible and what's getting in the way. You'll leave with a For-Now Truth Statement and a Three-Step Next Moves Plan — one small, supportive step…

People in this episode

Host: Anne-Marie Zanzal

Guest: Dr. Kiki Fehling

Topics covered

• coming out
• queer joy
• DBT
• self-discovery
• later-in-life awakening

Keywords

• coming out
• queer joy
• DBT
• self-discovery
• women's support

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: 3-Day Clarity Experience

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