About this episode

Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses the significance of resentment and how it can lead to greater self-understanding and honesty in relationships.

Resentment shows up when we've given more than we can back up, when we've gone along with something we never actually wanted, or when we've given with strings attached — hoping that giving will lead to being loved or appreciated more. But resentment is more than just a feeling, it's a signal worth paying attention to. We can let our resentments smolder under the surface, or we can use them to better understand ourselves, our desires, and where we need to be more honest with ourselves and others. In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Susie Pettit of the Love Your Life Show to talk about resentment, the difference between selflessness and self-erasure, and what it actually takes for women to step fully into their own lives, their relationships, and their desire. LAST CHANCE for The Art of Desire Retreat (there won't be another until 2028!)

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Guest: Susie Pettit

Topics covered

• resentment
• self-awareness
• relationships
• selflessness
• self-erasure
• personal growth

Keywords

• resentment
• self-awareness
• relationships
• selflessness
• personal growth
• women's empowerment
• desire

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