Ep. 320 | You Can't Become Her by Staying Who You've Always Been
About this episode
In this episode, Shannan Christiansen discusses the importance of changing one's identity to achieve different results in life.
So many women want different results, yet keep holding onto the same identity that's been shaping their choices for years. If you've ever described yourself as a people pleaser, anxious, not confident, terrible with money, too busy, or simply "that's just who I am," this episode is for you. The truth is, those labels aren't facts. They're stories you've repeated long enough to believe. Somewhere along the way, life taught you who you thought you had to become in order to survive—but survival was never meant to be your permanent identity. In this episode, I'm talking about why lasting change isn't created by chasing bigger goals, but by becoming a different version of yourself through the small, consistent choices you make every day. Because your habits shape your lifestyle, your lifestyle shapes your identity, and your identity will always determine the direction of your life. You'll also be challenged to ask yourself: Who have I been pretending to be because it feels safe? What identity am I finally ready to let go of? Who is the woman I am becoming? Because Becoming Her isn't about becoming someone you're not. It's about letting go of the version of yourself that was built out…
People in this episode
Host: Shannan Christiansen
Topics covered
- identity
- personal growth
- self-improvement
- habits
- transformation
Keywords
- identity change
- personal development
- self-identity
- habits
- Becoming Her
More episodes of Creating Her Best Life
- Ep. 321 | The Stories That Keep You Small
- Ep. 319 | The Gift Hidden in the Waiting
- Ep. 318 | What Are You Saying No To?
- Ep. 317 | Why Are You Saving It?
- Ep. 316 | The Grief No One Talks About in Becoming Her
- Ep. 315 | Hot Girl Summer Starts on the Inside
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