About this episode

In this episode, Tilly Dillehay addresses common marital issues and emphasizes the importance of pleasure in marriage.

Welcome to episode one of Wife School, a five-part series on everything no one tells you before you say "I do." Today's professor is Tilly Dillehay — author, pastor's wife, homeschooling mom of four, and one of the most requested guests in Culture Apothecary history after her last episode exploded. This one is almost entirely driven by your questions: how to stop comparing your husband to other men, what submission actually looks like day to day, sexless marriages, difficult in-laws, rebuilding trust after betrayal, and what to do when you wake up feeling more like roommates than lovers. Thank you to our sponsors! GEVITI: Use code "ALEX" to get 20% off of your first purchase MASA CHIPS: Use code "ALEXCLARK" for 25% OFF PRIMA: Use code "ALEXCLARK20" for 20% off a one-time purchase WOOLSHIRE: Use code 'ALEX10' for 10% off VMA: Use code "ALEX" for 20% off each month you are enrolled VOTE ONLINE: Our Guest: Tilly Dillehay Tilly's Links: Website X Instagram FaceBook FOLLOW ALEX: Instagram | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

People in this episode

Host: Alex Clark

Guest: Tilly Dillehay

Topics covered

• marriage
• relationships
• sexuality
• trust
• communication
• submission

Keywords

• marriage advice
• pleasure
• trust issues
• submission
• sexless marriage
• relationship advice

Sponsors

GEVITI, MASA CHIPS, PRIMA, WOOLSHIRE, VMA

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