S22E16: How To Navigate Uncertainty (In Dating) w/ Simone Stolzoff
About this episode
The episode discusses navigating uncertainty in dating and relationships with guest Simone Stolzoff.
If one things for certain, there's a lot of uncertainty in dating, relationships, and the world right now. We're joined by journalist and author Simone Stolzoff to talk about why people struggle so much with uncertainty and how this shows up in our romantic relationships. We're discussing the three traps that make us believe there's certainty even when there isn't, ways to build an uncertainty tolerance to apply to dating situations and relationships, and how to reframe 'not knowing' as something positive that sets us up for discovery to find the types of relationships and opportunities beyond what we thought was even possible. To learn more about Simone Stolzofff go to https://simonestolzoff.com. Get his new book 'How To Not Know: The Value of Uncertainty in a World that Demands Answers' wherever books are sold. ---- Take our Dating Archetypes quiz: https://howtobedateable.com/ Read our book: How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide To Finding Your Person and Falling in Love: https://howtobedateable.com/ Try the Dateable AI Dating Coach: Get personalized advice trained on our years of podcast episodes, courses and frameworks: https://studio.com/dateable Follow us…
People in this episode
Hosts: Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick
Guest: Simone Stolzoff
Topics covered
- uncertainty in dating
- romantic relationships
- building uncertainty tolerance
- reframing not knowing
- discovery in relationships
Keywords
- dating
- relationships
- uncertainty
- tolerance
- discovery
- romantic
- journalism
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Dateable, Simon & Schuster, Dateable AI Dating Coach, The Psychology of Relationships, Exit Interview
Books & works: How To Not Know: The Value of Uncertainty in a World that Demands Answers
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