How Resentment Slowly Destroys a Marriage

How Resentment Slowly Destroys a Marriage

September 3, 2026 · 23 min

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Ken and Tabatha Claytor discuss how resentment can slowly destroy a marriage through small, unprocessed disappointments.

Send us Fan Mail Resentment doesn’t usually sound like yelling. It sounds like “I’m fine,” feels like distance on the couch, and shows up as keeping score in your head. Ken and Tabatha Claytor get real about how resentment slowly destroys a marriage, not through one huge betrayal, but through small disappointments that never get processed and eventually turn into emotional coldness. We talk through personal stories from our own 27-year marriage, including seasons where resentment hid b...

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