The Gasoline & The Match: Understanding Feminine Desire

About this episode

This episode explores the nature of feminine desire and the importance of the space between wanting and having.

  Most women kill their own desire by trying to fulfill it too quickly. They move from wanting to getting, from emptiness to fullness, and wonder why they feel numb, exhausted, and burned out.   This episode explores why feminine desire is meant to be held, not fulfilled. Why wanting itself is the point. And how the space between desire and having is where your aliveness, magnetism, and capacity to receive actually lives.   You'll learn:     Why you can't want what you already have (and what this means for your relationship)   The difference between masculine "holding space" and feminine holding of potential   How moving toward what you want destroys your ability to be led   Why desire is subversive, transgressive, and your most accurate compass   The practice of receiving desire from yourself first   How unfulfilled wanting makes you magnetic at a universal level   If you've been filling yourself up, managing everything, and wondering why you feel dead inside, this episode will show you the way back to aliveness. Part 2 drops next week: Why men need to separate desire from having for entirely different reasons.

People in this episode

Hosts: Andrew, Dawn

Topics covered

• feminine desire
• relationship dynamics
• holding space
• aliveness
• magnetism
• desire and fulfillment

Keywords

• feminine desire
• relationship
• holding space
• aliveness
• magnetism
• unfulfilled wanting

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