About this episode

The episode discusses how seemingly positive self-talk can actually be a form of perfectionism and offers insights on embracing good enough maturity.

Your healthiest-sounding self-talk might actually be perfectionism in disguise. HSPs tell themselves "I'm working on myself" or "I don't want to make excuses" thinking it's wisdom, but the critical voice underneath can end up kicking your peace down the road. I translate what these phrases actually mean in your psychology and show you how to practice good enough maturity instead of chasing an impossible standard. Resources: - Work with Me 1:1: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/coaching - 30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% Off - The Book by Book Club: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/bookclub - Intro To Boundaries https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/intro - The Yearly Boundaries Intensive https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/Boundaries - Mapping your Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse Workshop https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% Off - Get the Patternscapes Wellness Deck ⁠https://www.getpatternscapes.com - Join the Patreon Community: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass - Download the FREE Morning Routine PDF ⁠https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning - Join our newsletter https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletter…

People in this episode

Host: Nikki Eisenhauer

Topics covered

• perfectionism
• self-talk
• mental health
• personal development
• emotional wellness

Keywords

• perfectionism
• self-talk
• mental health
• good enough maturity
• emotional wellness

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Organizations: Emotional Badass

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