About this episode
This episode discusses the consequences of missing male initiation rites and how it affects relationships and personal development.
There's an old African proverb: the boy who isn't initiated into the tribe will burn the village down just to feel its warmth. Modern men don't get initiated. They get pacified. Distracted. Left to figure it out alone. This micro episode is about the consequences of that missing rite and why uninitiated men leak chaos into their relationships, work, and families without even knowing why. If you've always felt like you were "almost" a man but not quite, this one's for you Get Involved Subscribe and REVIEW on Apple Follow and RATE on Spotify Sign up for Mike's Newsletter your weekly dose loving straight talk direct to your inbox – avoid the vortex of Social Media and get the days best content instantly. Want to explore DEEP coaching support and guidance with Mike? The Everyday Legends Academy is now open for enrolment applications. Start the exploration process with Mike NOW to see if it can be the full and remarkable solution for you like it has been for so many men before you
People in this episode
Host: Mike Campbell
Topics covered
- masculinity
- initiation
- relationships
- self-discovery
- chaos
- personal growth
Keywords
- initiation
- masculinity
- relationships
- self-improvement
- chaos
- personal growth
- African proverb
Mentioned in this episode
Books & works: The Boy Who Was Never Welcomed
Places: Africa
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