Why You're Not Getting Your Shit Together

About this episode

This episode explores the reasons behind men's avoidance of change and the emotional grief associated with unmet expectations.

You're not lazy. You're not broken. You're avoiding the moment where you have to stop lying to yourself. Getting your shit together isn't about motivation, it's about grief. Grieving who you thought you'd be by now. In this micro episode, I break down why men stall right before change, and how avoidance quietly costs you years you don't get back. Get Involved Subscribe and REVIEW on Apple Follow and RATE on Spotify Sign up for Mike's Newsletter your weekly dose loving straight talk direct to your inbox – avoid the vortex of Social Media and get the days best content instantly. Want to explore DEEP coaching support and guidance with Mike? The Everyday Legends Academy is now open for enrolment applications. Start the exploration process with Mike NOW to see if it can be the full and remarkable solution for you like it has been for so many men before you

People in this episode

Host: Mike Campbell

Topics covered

• self-improvement
• grief
• change
• avoidance
• men's issues

Keywords

• motivation
• self-deception
• personal growth
• coaching
• Everyday Legends Academy

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