213 | "could I be autistic too?" what many parents realize after their child’s diagnosis

213 | "could I be autistic too?" what many parents realize after their child’s diagnosis

April 29, 2026 · 29 min

About this episode

This episode explores how parents often question their own neurotype after their child's autism diagnosis and its implications for family dynamics.

about this episode (+ scroll for resources) 👇 for a lot of parents, the autism journey doesn’t stop with their child’s diagnosis. at some point… it starts to feel personal. you hear the questions during an evaluation, you start learning more about autism, and suddenly you’re thinking: “this sounds like me…” in this episode, dr. tay walks through what this process actually looks like — why it’s so common, why it can feel complicated, and how it can impact not just you, but your relationship and your entire family dynamic. because this isn’t just about understanding your child. it’s about understanding yourself and what that means for how you move forward. resources ⚡️ other episodes referenced in this episode: 180, 189, 208 ⚡️ autism traits guide — a resource to help you understand diagnostic criteria and recognize patterns across ages and presentations ⚡️ neurodiverse communication masterclass with Dr. Ali — tools and strategies to support communication and connection in your relationship ⚡️ learn more about dr. tay’s whole family approach + clinical services , including booking a free consult call for our adult evaluations in this episode, you’ll hear: why so many parents begin…

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