099 | What If You Were Never The Problem? Dismantling The Common Denominator Lie.

099 | What If You Were Never The Problem? Dismantling The Common Denominator Lie.

From Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff | Christian Women, Boundaries, Self-Sabotage, Red Flags, People Pleasing by Dr. Tiffanie Henry - Your Relationship Transformation Coach

July 15, 2026 · 26 min · Episode 215

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Dr. Tiff discusses the common misconception of self-blame in relationships and offers a new perspective on personal accountability.

Have you been blaming yourself for every relationship that didn’t work out? Dr. Tiff dismantles the common denominator lie — and reframes what it actually means that you keep arriving at the same painful conclusion no matter how much work you’ve done. Scripture: Isaiah 61:3 — “To bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.” RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: Ep 094 — Get Out of Your Own Way: The Perfectionist's Guide to Doing the Inner Work Ep 095 — Better To Receive? How To Let Love In Without The Guilt Ep 096 — All That Work & Still No Love? The Answer Is In Your WHY Ep 097 — From Dusty to Dainty: Walking in God’s Design for Your Life Ep 098 — God Is Not Confused About You The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow…

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Books & works: Isaiah 61:3, Ep 094 — Get Out of Your Own Way: The Perfectionist's Guide to Doing the Inner Work, Ep 095 — Better To Receive? How To Let Love In Without The Guilt, Ep 096 — All That Work & Still No Love? The Answer Is In Your WHY, Ep 097 — From Dusty to Dainty: Walking in God’s Design for Your Life, Ep 098 — God Is Not Confused About You

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