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Navigating Discard, Revenge, and Unsupportive Friends [371]
From Flying Free by Natalie Hoffman
March 17, 2026 · 23 min · Episode 371
About this episode
This episode discusses the complexities of dealing with abusers who leave, the fear of revenge post-separation, and the challenges of unsupportive friends.
In this episode we tackle three questions: What happens when the abuser is the one who leaves? How do you live with the fear of post-separation or post-divorce revenge? And what do you do when your friends just don't get it? 🔑 Key Takeaways: Why some abusers discard their victims (and what it reveals about your progress) The difference between fear you should listen to and fear that steals your peace What actually helps kids navigate their father leaving The one question to ask yourself when trying to help someone understand your experience Why chasing validation from people who don't get it creates unnecessary suffering Get Today’s Free Resource: 📒 Take a free Emotional Abuse Assessment by going to emotionalabusequiz.com I will also send you my weekly Hope Letters for Christian women in emotionally and spiritually abusive marriages.
People in this episode
Host: Natalie Hoffman
Topics covered
- emotional abuse
- separation
- divorce
- friendship
- validation
- fear
Keywords
- abuser
- discard
- revenge
- friends
- emotional abuse
- validation
- fear
- divorce
- support
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: emotionalabusequiz.com
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