Autistic Burnout, Parenting, and Learning Not to Judge Myself - Ep 132 with Reuben
About this episode
Reuben Schwartz discusses his experiences with autistic burnout and the challenges of parenting while navigating self-judgment and exhaustion.
“ …you internalized that you’re doing something wrong because you don’t feel or act the way other people do. ” In this candid conversation, Reuben Schwartz shares what autistic burnout actually felt like behind the scenes, from years of sleep deprivation as a parent to the quiet habit of constantly judging himself for being different. If you’ve ever felt pressure to be “normal,” struggled with burnout, or wrestled with the realities of autistic parenting, this episode explores what changes after diagnosis, why pacing matters more than pushing through, and how self-understanding can reduce the constant inner pressure. Ruben is a startup consultant based in Sydney. He’s on his 13th different career, currently writing Choose Your Own Adventure books for startup founders, while wearing many other hats. After 45 often confusing years, including the last five raising a young child, he was diagnosed as autistic last year and is still working through what that means. Episode Highlights 00:01:22 — Four years of severe sleep deprivation Reuben describes how his daughter’s sleep issues led to years of chronic exhaustion while he was still working full time. The prolonged sleep deprivation…
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