About this episode

Elle and Vee discuss with kink educator Foxie Lou how to transform sex from performance into exploration.

This week, Elle and Vee sit down with kink educator Foxie Lou. This is a masterclass in turning sex from performance into exploration touching on BDSM, play, trust, and connection. From primal wrestling and predicament play to nervous system safety and the fear of receiving, the conversation gets raw fast as Elle realizes her struggle with submission might actually be a struggle with vulnerability. Foxie breaks down why great sex has way less to do with performance and way more to do with cur...

People in this episode

Hosts: Elle, Vee

Guest: Foxie Lou

Topics covered

• BDSM
• predicament play
• vulnerability
• trust
• connection
• sexual exploration

Keywords

• kink
• BDSM
• sexuality
• submission
• vulnerability
• trust
• connection
• nervous system safety

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