How to Stop Fighting with Your Family About Clutter

About this episode

The episode discusses the conflict caused by clutter in families and offers strategies to manage it effectively.

We talk about why clutter causes so much conflict at home—and how thinking about Clutter-Blindness, the Endowment Effect, and the Four Tendencies can help you handle it more effectively. Plus, practical strategies for living with a messy family member and saying goodbye to sentimental clutter. Resources & links related to this episode: Visit my Organization Hub for 9 practical tips for deciding what to keep Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app. Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.

People in this episode

Host: Gretchen Rubin

Topics covered

• clutter
• family conflict
• organization strategies
• sentimental clutter
• Clutter-Blindness
• Endowment Effect
• Four Tendencies

Keywords

• clutter
• family conflict
• organization
• sentimental items
• Clutter-Blindness
• Endowment Effect
• Four Tendencies

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: The Onward Project, Happiness Project Collection, Happier app

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