About this episode

In this episode, Callie Little discusses polyamory, autonomy, and the importance of self-discovery in relationships.

Callie Little is a polyamorous, pansexual witch who illustrated and co-authored my favorite tarot deck, Every Little Thing You Do is Magic, and its incredible companion book, which offers readers the opportunity to deepen their relationship with the cards and their own intuition. I reached out to them to replace two cards my dog had chewed up and they responded saying they checked out the pod and wanted to come on if I'd have them. IF I'D HAVE THEM?! I melted and exploded and said absolutely yes, thank you, Universe, and the results were glorious. In this episode: going from “I’ll try anything once” to… wait, I actually have standards now?? why you don’t have to earn your desires or make them make sense to anyone else the difference between real connection and just doing what you think you’re supposed to do the subtle ways patriarchy trains you to give up your autonomy and call it love that moment when something clicks and you’re like… oh, this isn’t a choice, this is a cage how to stay open without ignoring every red flag in front of your face a definition of cheating that might rearrange your brain a little what it actually looks like to be yourself first, even in a long-term…

People in this episode

Host: Samia Mounts

Guest: Callie Little

Topics covered

• polyamory
• self-discovery
• relationships
• patriarchy
• autonomy
• desires
• shame

Keywords

• polyamorous
• pansexual
• tarot
• relationships
• autonomy
• shame
• desires
• patriarchy

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Every Little Thing You Do is Magic, companion book

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