About this episode

Samia Mounts addresses a listener's question about feeling arousal instead of jealousy upon discovering infidelity.

This week, I take a listener advice question from Ben (not his real name), who asked if he's a "sick freak" because he felt arousal instead of jealousy when he caught his ex-wife cheating with his best friend. Oh Ben! My heart! I hope my answer helps you, you sweet, sweet man. Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts/ Follow ClosetEd on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/closetedwithsamia/ SUPPORT ME FINANCIALLY, my sweet pinecones! I need your helpppp to keep making this show! Subscribe to my Substack and make a pledge for a monthly or annual subscription: http://samiamounts.substack.com/ Venmo me: https://account.venmo.com/u/samia-mounts CashApp me: https://cash.app/$SamiaMounts See ya next week, pinecones! xoxo, Samia Mentioned in this episode: Get a 15% discount on all FirmTech products! Use code CLOSETED at check-out. Get 15% off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro course at www.kennethplay.com/closeted

People in this episode

Host: Samia Mounts

Guest: Ben

Topics covered

• listener advice
• relationships
• jealousy
• arousal
• cheating

Keywords

• listener advice
• arousal
• jealousy
• cheating
• relationships

Sponsors

FirmTech, Kenneth Play

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: FirmTech, Kenneth Play

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