First Dates: Don’t Make These Mistakes - Lyn Smith

First Dates: Don’t Make These Mistakes - Lyn Smith

From Hearts Entwined Podcast by Lyn Smith

December 11, 2025 · 15 min · Episode 326

About this episode

Lyn discusses the common mistakes made on first dates and emphasizes the importance of giving potential partners a chance beyond initial impressions.

Lyn examines how best to approach first dates, and the common mistakes people make when evaluating potential partners, focussing upon the importance of not dismissing someone after just one meeting, especially if overall there was a feel good vibe. KEY TAKEAWAYS Initial chemistry or attraction may not be present on a first date, but that doesn't mean a potential relationship should be dismissed. It's important to give people a chance to reveal their true selves over time. After a first date, reflect on how you felt about yourself rather than solely on the other person. If you had a good time and felt comfortable, it's definitely worth considering a second date. Studies show that many couples who eventually form strong, healthy long term relationships did not feel an immediate spark on their first date. Getting to know someone better can certainly lead to a deeper connection. It's easy to dismiss someone based on initial impressions or lack of chemistry. However, taking the time to explore a relationship can reveal attractive traits that were not initially apparent on a first date. BEST MOMENTS "Sometimes on first dates, people are very nervous... there might not automatically be…

People in this episode

Host: Lyn Smith

Topics covered

  • first dates
  • relationship advice
  • dating mistakes

Keywords

  • chemistry
  • attraction
  • self-reflection
  • long-term relationships

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