What Actually Makes You “That Girl” (it’s not what you think)
From Hot and Unbothered by Brianna Gomez
April 24, 2026 · 44 min
About this episode
This episode redefines what it means to be 'that girl' by focusing on identity and the quiet habits that shape personal growth.
You've got it all wrong... In this episode, we’re redefining what it actually means to be “that girl.” It’s not aesthetics, routines, or performance — it’s identity and the quiet habits that shape who you become when no one is watching. In today's episode we break down the real behaviors behind confidence, self-worth, and grounded energy: the way you speak to yourself, how you treat others, and how you move through your life with intention instead of validation. Visit CozyEarth.com and use code: unbothered for up to 20% off! The tool you NEED to stick to your goals this year: the BECOMING HER PLANNER for the girlies who are serious about leveling up (made by your's truly!) Remember to rate the pod 5 stars & leave a review to be featured in next week's episode! Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more! Join our Hot & Unbothered besties groupchat to hold each other accountable! Tune in to learn how to unlock your highest, hottest, & HAPPIEST…
People in this episode
Host: Brianna Gomez
Topics covered
- self-identity
- confidence
- self-worth
- personal growth
- habits
- intention
Keywords
- that girl
- self-improvement
- confidence
- habits
- personal growth
- self-worth
- intention
Sponsors
CozyEarth.com
Mentioned in this episode
Products: BECOMING HER PLANNER
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