Why You’re Still Doing Everything Yourself

About this episode

Kate explores why leaders with capable teams still end up doing everything themselves and how this affects team ownership and productivity.

Why leaders with capable teams still end up doing everything themselves, the first episode in a three-part How to Lead mini-series. This episode, Kate explores a common pattern: leaders delegate but keep stepping back in to tweak work that’s “not quite right”. Each time you quietly redo work, you stay busy, your team improves more slowly, and ownership never leaves you, which teaches the team to hesitate and check in more. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Why It All Comes Back 00:19 Meet Your Host 01:26 The Linda Scenario 01:52 The Control Trap 02:53 Standards In Your Head 04:04 Identity And Tradeoffs 04:43 Different Versus Worse 05:54 Four Shifts This Week 06:33 What Happens If You Dont 07:02 Wrap Up And Next Steps Useful links: The Digital Academy Online Course Free Resources and more information on Kate's coaching programmes Buy the "How to Lead" book Connect with Kate on LinkedIn Follow Kate on TikTok Contact Kate https://www.waterfallhill.co.uk/links

People in this episode

Host: Kate Waterfall Hill

Topics covered

• delegation
• leadership
• team dynamics
• control
• ownership
• productivity

Keywords

• leadership
• delegation
• teamwork
• control trap
• productivity
• coaching

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