FBI, CIA, DEA and the ABCs of Spotting Scammers

FBI, CIA, DEA and the ABCs of Spotting Scammers

May 21, 2025 · 26 min · Season 2 · Episode 34

About this episode

The episode discusses how to spot scammers on dating apps with insights from private investigator Shelley Cain.

Falling for a scammer posing as a romantic interest? It happens more often than you'd think—and not just to the naïve. Even the most seasoned dating app users can get caught in a web of sweet talk and stolen valor. In this episode, we chat with private investigator Shelley Cain, whose job is all about catching cheaters and unmasking frauds. She shares how scammers often hide behind fake badges, ranks, and uniforms —and how to spot the red flags before your heart (and bank account) takes a hit. Plus, a real-life cautionary tale of a lonely heart.

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Hosts: Jinah Kim, Daniel Yi

Guest: Shelley Cain

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Organizations: FBI, CIA, DEA

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