
Adam Lane Smith and Dr. Leslie Dobson discuss the complexities of identifying narcissism and avoidant behavior in relationships.
Most people online will tell you your partner is a narcissist because he didn't text back fast enough. This conversation is nothing like that. Adam Lane Smith sits down with Dr. Leslie Dobson, forensic psychologist and court-appointed expert who has spent her career inside prisons, jails, and psych hospitals assessing the most dangerous individuals in the system, to give you a reality-based answer to the question so many people are afraid to ask: am I actually in danger? What you'll learn in this conversation:1- Why true narcissistic personality disorder is rare and why misusing the term puts people at real risk2- What coercive control actually is, and why a federal judge needed to hear that it's more dangerous than physical violence3- How to tell the difference between an avoidant partner and an actual predator4- What narcissists are scanning for in a potential target and why certain attachment wounds make you more visible to them5- Why the 10% good moments in a toxic relationship are not evidence that things can change6- How isolation works, why it happens so gradually, and what it takes to reconnect with the people who knew you before7- What forensic journaling looks like and…
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