Her Nudes Were Leaked. Now She Helps Victims Get Justice (ft. Norma Buster)

About this episode

Alexa Andre and Norma Buster discuss the complexities of image-based abuse and the journey towards healing and justice for victims.

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Norma Buster, sex positive victims rights advocate, Chief of Staff at CA Goldberg Law, survivor of image-based abuse, and online sex worker, for a raw and nuanced conversation about stalking, leaked intimate images, deepfake abuse, consent, shame, sexuality, healing, OnlyFans, bisexuality, and reclaiming agency after trauma. Topics Covered: Norma Buster’s experience with stalking and image-based abuse Why “revenge porn” is an inaccurate and harmful term The evolution of image-based sexual abuse laws Victim blaming from judges, police, and society Trauma, shame, and psychological impact after leaked intimate images CA Goldberg Law and victims rights advocacy The federal Take It Down Act Why intent-to-harm clauses make prosecutions harder Free speech debates surrounding image-based abuse laws AI deepfakes and nudifying apps Deepfake abuse affecting women, minors, and students Consent, impact vs intent, and digital privacy Supporting friends through stalking or abuse Victim vs survivor terminology and trauma identity Purity culture and sexual shame Bisexual awakening during the pandemic Dating couples and exploring non-monogamy…

People in this episode

Host: Alexa Andre

Guest: Norma Buster

Topics covered

• image-based abuse
• victims rights
• consent
• sexuality
• healing
• stalking
• deepfake abuse

Keywords

• revenge porn
• trauma
• OnlyFans
• bisexuality
• digital privacy
• victim blaming
• sex work stigma

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: CA Goldberg Law

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