About this episode

Alexa Andre and Ashley Manta explore the intricacies of pussy worship and how to enhance pleasure in sexual experiences.

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets back in bed with sex educator, relationship coach, and OnlyFans creator Ashley Manta for a deep dive into pussy worship, oral sex, receiving pleasure, and what truly creates incredible sex. They discuss what pussy worship actually means, why enthusiasm and verbal reassurance matter and creating safety for the receiver. Topics covered: What pussy worship really is Why enthusiasm changes everything Verbal reassurance before oral sex Creating emotional safety during sex The ideal 60-minute pussy worship session Foreplay being needed before oral sex Labia massage techniques Consent before penetration Pleasure-focused vs orgasm-focused sex Tension orgasms vs relaxed orgasms Betty Dodson's orgasm techniques Breathing through orgasm Why sex educators have higher standards Escaping performative sex Raising your standards for pleasure Porn vs real-life sex Learning to receive instead of always giving Overcoming people-pleasing in bed Mutual masturbation as education Giving and receiving feedback during sex Hormonal changes and changing preferences Pussy worship fantasies Bisexual experiences and women's play parties Breast worship and body…

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