What My Son's Autism Diagnosis Taught Me About Myself | Bari Shore's Story

About this episode

Bari Shore shares her journey of personal growth and community building after her son's autism and apraxia diagnosis during the pandemic.

An autism diagnosis changes more than a child’s future. It changes the people who love that child too. In this episode of Inchstones, Sarah Kernion sits down with Bari Shore for an honest conversation about autism parenting, childhood apraxia, community, motherhood, and the unexpected personal growth that emerges from raising a neurodivergent child. When Bari’s son Dean received his autism and apraxia diagnosis during the pandemic, she found herself searching for answers, support, and connection. Like many autism moms, she experienced relief, grief, uncertainty, and determination all at the same time. But perhaps the biggest surprise was not how much her son would grow. It was how much she would grow too. Together, Sarah and Bari discuss autism parenting, caregiver stories, autism diagnosis journeys, motherhood identity shifts, advocacy, sibling relationships, and the importance of finding people who truly understand your family’s reality. They also explore why support does not always come from large groups, how community can be built one conversation at a time, and what happens when parents learn to celebrate inchstones instead of milestones. This episode explores: * autism…

People in this episode

Host: Sarah Kernion

Guest: Bari Shore

Topics covered

• autism parenting
• childhood apraxia
• personal growth
• motherhood
• community support
• advocacy
• sibling relationships

Keywords

• autism diagnosis
• apraxia
• caregiver stories
• motherhood identity
• support community
• advocacy
• neurodivergent parenting

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