Why You Fight Against Your Own Interests: Lessons from a Peace Negotiator

Why You Fight Against Your Own Interests: Lessons from a Peace Negotiator

March 17, 2026 · 50 min · Season 8 · Episode 6

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Lord John Alderdice discusses the psychological factors that lead people to act against their own interests in conflict and offers insights for leaders on navigating these challenges.

Why do people and entire societies act against their own interests in conflict? In this episode, Lord John Alderdice, a key architect of the Good Friday Agreement in Northern Ireland, shares how psychology, identity, and relationships (not logic) drive division and peace. He offers powerful insights for leaders on listening, navigating polarization, and building a future beyond conflict.

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Host: Innovative Leadership Institute

Guest: Lord John Alderdice

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Organizations: Good Friday Agreement

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