About this episode

The episode discusses how to navigate mismatched libidos in relationships and emphasizes the importance of communication.

Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the open communication to create a thriving sex life. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Products: Figuring Out What I Like Guide Resources: Get on the Mismatched Libido Audio Course waitlist HERE! Email us to get on the Finishing Well Orgasm Course waitlist!! kingdomsexuality@gmail.com Come As You Are book ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Episode Timestamps Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview - 0:21 Sponsor Break - 1:18 Discussion on Mismatched Libido - 1:25 Understanding Desire Types - 6:01 Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 7:29 Dual Control Model - 19:26 Communication and Compromise - 23:23 Course Information and Conclusion - 34:09 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Hosts: Alana, Kyle, Tiera

Topics covered

• mismatched libido
• communication
• sex drive
• relationships
• desire types

Keywords

• sex drive
• libido
• communication
• relationships
• desire types
• responsive desire
• spontaneous desire

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Finishing Well Orgasm Course, Kingdom Sexuality

Books & works: Come As You Are

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