About this episode
This episode explores the complexities of being in a relationship with a narcissist, featuring personal stories and expert advice on navigating such dynamics.
Love bombing. Gaslighting. Coercive control. Narcissists can crash into your life on the charm offensive. They begin with intense affection, compliments and grand gestures. But behind that charm can be manipulation and intense criticism. In the worst cases, they control every aspect of their partner's life. It’s disorienting to be with a narcissist, and often people with narcissistic traits have very little insight into their behaviour. Yumi Stynes chats to women who’ve been in love with narcissists to understand what got them under their spell and why they're so difficult to leave. Plus, clinical Tamara Cavenett explores what you can do to protect your emotional state within a narcissistic relationship, and how to get out safely. If you need help: 1800 Respect national helpline 1800 737 732 Women's Crisis Line 1800 811 811 Lifeline 131 114 Relationships Australia 1300 364 277 This episode will answer questions like: Am I in a relationship with a narcissist? How do narcissists behave in romantic relationships? How can you find out if your partner is a narcissist? What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder? How can you prepare to leave a coercive relationship? What to listen to…
People in this episode
Host: Yumi Stynes
Guest: Tamara Cavenett
Topics covered
- narcissism
- relationships
- emotional abuse
- mental health
- coercive control
- love bombing
Keywords
- narcissist
- love bombing
- gaslighting
- coercive control
- Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- emotional manipulation
- relationship advice
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: 1800 Respect, Women's Crisis Line, Lifeline, Relationships Australia
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