Changing the Narrative on YSA Divorce | An Interview with Cole Zesiger

About this episode

Cole Zesiger discusses his journey as a breakup and relationship coach, sharing insights on healing and building healthy relationships after divorce.

Cole Zesiger is a breakup and relationship coach, author, and content creator who specializes in helping people navigate heartbreak, healing, and healthy relationships. After experiencing a divorce at 23 and another difficult breakup soon after, Cole began openly sharing his journey online, eventually growing an audience of more than 750,000 followers across Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, and other platforms. Through his coaching programs, online community, and content, he has helped over 2,000 people work through breakups, strengthen their self-worth, improve communication, and build healthier relationships. His practical approach blends psychology, attachment theory, faith, and real-world experience to help people either reconcile in healthier ways or move forward with peace and confidence. Cole grew up in Utah and served as a missionary in the Manila Philippines Mission. He married his wife, Jocelyn, in 2023, and together they are raising their daughter, Daisy. When he’s not coaching or creating content, Cole enjoys playing guitar, dirt biking, wildlife photography, and exploring the mountains. His debut book, Ex’s and No’s: The Breakup Advice You Don’t Want to Hear , offers a…

People in this episode

Host: Leading Saints

Guest: Cole Zesiger

Topics covered

• divorce
• relationship coaching
• self-worth
• communication
• healing
• faith

Keywords

• breakup
• relationship coach
• healing
• self-worth
• attachment theory
• communication
• faith

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Ex’s and No’s: The Breakup Advice You Don’t Want to Hear

Places: Utah, Manila Philippines Mission

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